Sadness - is not attractive. When you look at someone who looks depressed, burdened by loss, embittered by defeat, what do you see? Do you see someone you want to hang out with? Doubtful. Maybe, if you're feeling strong, you may see someone you want to help. But surely, you don't see someone whom you feel attracted to.
We are humans, subject to the dynamics of social interaction. Happiness is contagious, strong people tend to be surrounded by other people who like them, and want to enjoy the invisible, hard to describe "radiance" that emanates by those people who have "charisma".
Think about the people you love. Do you want to go them every time you're in need, and ask for help? Save that card for when it's really necessary. Many times, you can handle it on your own. Find your own strength within you. It's only on rare occasions that we're so beaten down that we need the support of our closest ones. All the other times, learn to cope.
Nobody likes a victim.
So don't be one.
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